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Fitting the Pieces Together

3/15/2021

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A black hexagon plastic frame with most of the interior hexagon shaped spots filled with red or black puzzle pieces in many different shapes and combinations.  A red piece is resting on the left side of the frame, next to a spot that it would fit in.  A black piece is resting above the frame, next to a spot that is not a fit, although it has the right number of hexagons. The background is off white.
This is an image of the actual 3D printed puzzle that inspired this blog, taken with my smart phone.
This blog talks about how creating a career or business can be a bit like fitting the pieces of a puzzle together.

Last Tuesday morning, as I prepared my first cup of tea for the day, my spouse handed me a partially completed puzzle he created as a gift for his mother. He’s learning how to use his new 3D printer and thought making a puzzle would be a great project. The first time he handed me the puzzle and the frame it is supposed to fit into, I quickly realized that the pieces were simply too big!

As I stirred honey into my tea, he handed me a new bigger base with most of the pieces nestled within it. The first thing I did was to count the vacant spaces, to be sure that number was matched by the spaces that could be covered by the remaining pieces, I wanted to make sure that it was feasible to make all the pieces fit!

Then I started moving pieces around while sitting in our sunny kitchen sipping tea. I managed to get all but one of the pieces in, took a picture which I shared on Instagram, and then thought some more about the puzzle. It occurred to me that I should take it apart, and start with the biggest pieces first, fitting them together in several different combinations, adding pieces by size until I found a pattern that worked and fit all the pieces.

I like to remind people that learning opportunities are all around us. In the last month, I’ve repeatedly received the message that creative outlets help open our minds. The rest of this blog is going to unpack how the story of the puzzle can be a metaphor for figuring out how to create the business, career or whole life that works for you.

Learning new skills takes time, often our first attempts at doing new things don’t work. That’s OK, because failure is something we can learn from. Especially if we reflect on what went wrong. Getting feedback from people we know care about us, who want us to thrive, can help point out the areas where we can do things differently.

When my spouse handed me the puzzle he hadn’t figured out where the last two pieces fit. He had the blue print; he could have looked at it and placed all the pieces in their correct places. Instead, because he knows me, and that I love puzzles almost as much as his mother, he handed it to me to complete.  Often the people who are on our side know an answer, something that could work, and they are willing to share what has worked for them with us. It’s a lot more rewarding to figure out the answers for ourselves, especially when we know that we can reach out to those who support us to brainstorm ideas for how to move forward.

On my first try solving the puzzle, I removed several of the pieces my spouse had placed and tried different configurations. After a few minutes, I managed to get all but one piece inside the frame.  Often, we can find hints to our unique journeys to success by building on the experiences and lessons learned by those around us. Libraries are filled with books written by successful people to help others figure out where to go next on their path to abundance. Coaches also run thriving businesses providing a sounding board to their clients.

As I sat there pondering the puzzle and sipping my tea, I decided to take a picture to create a “just for fun” Instagram story. Trying to be active and share my authentic self on Instagram, is helping me identify images that others may relate to. 

As I thought about the puzzle some more, I realized that I had to start again, concentrating on getting the biggest pieces of the puzzle inside the frame first. Then I tried several iterations of getting progressively smaller pieces to fit. Eventually I finished the puzzle, took a picture to send to my husband as proof of completion and went to do the rest of my morning routine. As I was brushing my teeth, I realized that the puzzle I completed was a metaphor for living the life you want. If we concentrate on the big things, and finding ways to make them fit into the frame that we want for our lives, eventually we’ll find ways to fit in the smaller things. Things that are also important, but not critical to the lives we want to lead.

Figure out what a good life means to you (the puzzle frame), think about what’s most important, what must fit in your life (the big pieces). The most important things can sometimes be messy and seem strange when examined in isolation. Find ways to make the most important things fit in your life or business, then as those snap together, add in the other things that you’d like in your life (the smaller pieces) that while important, aren’t critical to your overall well-being. As you get more comfortable with the pieces in your frame, you can try shifting things around until everything fits.

Just like the puzzle in this image, I’m still trying to fit all the pieces in the frame that I chose for my life. Sometimes we need to dream bigger, to fit everything that we want into our lives. It’s OK to change your dreams as you learn and grow.

If you're interested in working with me as your Thought Partner as you figure out how to fit in all the pieces you want in your career or business reach out for a free try before you buy consultation.

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Indigenous Women are Successful Entrepreneurs

3/3/2021

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This screenshot from the end of the International Women's Day event shows a large image of Jace Meyer the moderator sitting in her home, with smaller images of Chantal Fraser, Sandra Schillo, Denise Anne Boissoneau and Guy Dancause across the top. Gail Gallagher and Monica Gattinger's cameras are off
Jace Meyer, the moderator for the Pathways to Leadership and Entrepreneurship - A Conversation with Indigenous and Non-Indigenous Women, International Women's Week event guides the question and answer period. This event was held on March 3, 2021 and co-hosted by the University of Ottawa Institute for Science, Society and Policy and the Idea Connector Network
Today, I had the honour of being one of five panelists in an International Women’s Week event co-hosted by the University of Ottawa Institute for Science, Society and Politics and the Idea Connector Network. The event was called “Pathways to Leadership and Entrepreneurship - A Conversation with Indigenous and Non-Indigenous Women.” Jace Meyer did a fabulous job moderating the 90-minute panel, and the question-and-answer period. This week’s post is based on my talk called “Indigenous Women are Successful Entrepreneurs.”

This is the first time I’ve participated in an event that was being live streamed on YouTube, LinkedIn and Twitter.  A recording of the session is available on YouTube and here's the link to all the resources from that day.

I started with a brief acknowledgement that I’m grateful to live, learn, and work on traditional Anishinaabe and Haudenosaunee territory, also known as Quinte West, Ontario. I’m also grateful for the privilege of growing up in a military family, then serving in the military for 28 years. I acknowledge that I benefit from the privilege society grants me as a white coded cis gender heterosexual woman.

Over the past 8 years I’ve realized that the things I enjoyed doing most in the military, speaking, training and coaching can help others learn how to thrive. Since 2015, I’ve been delivering training on behalf of my strategic partners at the Canadian company Indigenous Link. I speak to their clients, mostly mainstream employers, about how to attract, recruit, hire and retain Indigenous employees. I also act as a Thought Partner to people who are changing careers and/or starting or growing their businesses. Sometimes my Thought Partners focus changes during our time together shifting from careers to entrepreneurship and vice versa.

Sharing success stories is one of the most powerful ways to help people learn, and to dispel negative stereotypes. The goal of my post is to share that Indigenous Women are succeeding in every profession and type of business in the lands we call Canada. I’ll illustrate this truth, by sharing a few examples, then I’ll briefly introduce you to three organizations providing resources to help Indigenous women grow and improve their businesses. While Indigenous Women are Successful Entrepreneurs, there are many stages to entrepreneurship, and we can all, no matter where we are on our journey, benefit from the help of others.

When you imagine a successful Indigenous woman entrepreneur what do you think of? Do images of gifted fashion and jewelry designers come to mind? If so, that’s a valid image, however there is much more to the story. While many Indigenous women are running businesses inspired by traditional clothing, foods, art and medicine, many of us run businesses based on our professions.

Vicky auf der Mauer is a proud Inuk woman, raised in Iqaluit, Nunavut. Vicky calls herself an Urban Inuk, as she now lives in Toronto, where she spent 13 years learning entrepreneurship in the restaurant industry, starting as a hostess, working her way to 5-star event manager for A-List celebrities, before co-founding Porchetta + Co. which has since grown to include 4 restaurant locations in downtown Toronto.

Vicky left the restaurant business to follow her dream, and became an intuitive life, business, and money mindset coach, helping clients, mainly Indigenous women, uncover the money beliefs that historically and currently hold us back, so that we can have a greater impact in our own life, our families’ lives, our work and our communities. Vicky created and delivers a program called Decolonizing Money.

Lisa Isaac is a Certified Human Resources Leader who started her career with human resources and leadership roles in the manufacturing, energy, and banking industries in Alberta, Nunavut, Ontario, and in her home community, Moose Deer Point First Nation, on Georgian Bay. Lisa is a University of Ottawa and University of Lethbridge alumni.

In 2018, Lisa became an entrepreneur starting a boutique Human Resources company in Sarnia, Ontario. Her company Lisa Isaac HR Professional Services is Certified as Aboriginal owned by the Canadian Council for Aboriginal Businesses (CCAB). Lisa and her team of 3 employees (from a diverse background) serve a variety of clients, including Indigenous communities and organizations from across the lands we call Canada, and non-Indigenous Northern Ontario businesses and organizations.

Karen MacKenzie is Cree/Metis. In 2003, she co-founded the International consulting company MacIntosh Canada, which is also a Certified Aboriginal Business. Karen and her team help people and organizations find where they are at presently and then provide direction, to help them reach their goals. Macintosh Canada provides services in four main areas:
  1. Community Development,
  2. Capacity Building,
  3. Workplace Readiness, and
  4. Consulting Services.
Karen holds an MBA from the University of Dalhousie and a Bachelors of Science in Chemistry from Saint Mary’s University.

Vicky, Lisa and Karen are a few examples of Indigenous women thriving as entrepreneurs based on their professional knowledge and lived experiences.

Now let’s shift the focus, there are dozens of programs offering to help Indigenous women thrive as Entrepreneurs and Leaders from coast to coast to coast. The rest of this blog focuses on three of these programs.

In 2020, the Native Women’s Association of Canada launched the #BeTheDrum Entrepreneur Navigation Program. This program includes one on one coaching sessions with the Entrepreneur Navigators (or in other words Mentors), a group of six women from a vast array of business backgrounds and lived experiences, from across the lands we call Canada.

The #BeThe Drum program offers a weekly group check-in, a weekly bookkeeping and finance session, online learning events, and conferences. My favourite part about the #BeTheDrum program is that the learning is based on where we are in our respective businesses. We learn from subject matter experts, the Entrepreneur Navigators and each other. The program also includes an Indigenous Women’s Business Directory.

Fed Dev Ontario provide Queen’s University and several partner organizations with funding to help aspiring and existing women entrepreneurs in the Greater Kingston Ontario region start and/or grow their businesses. The Women Entrepreneurs CAN project offers 20 programs serving a number of intersectional groups, including Indigenous women. The WE-CAN project partnered with Shyra Barberstock, co-founder of Okwaho Equal Source, to create the Kwe-Biz Supporting Indigenous Women Entrepreneurs program which offers:
  1. Business Accelerators cohorts,
  2. Business Workshops, and
  3. A Mentorship Program
Kwe-Biz is situated on the traditional territories of the Kahnien’kehàka (Mohawk) and Mississauga Anishinaabe peoples in southeastern Ontario. The Kwe-Biz program was designed by Okwaho Equal Source, a 100% Indigenous owned and operated business, proudly headquartered in Tyendinaga Mohawk Territory, Ontario. The co-founders are Kahnien’kehàka and Anishinaabe.

The PARO Centre, in Thunder Bay Ontario, offers an Enterprising Indigenous Women program to assist Indigenous women from remote and rural Northern Ontario communities. This program offers several services including, but not limited to:
  1. Financial support,
  2. Procurement opportunities, and
  3. On-going support from the idea phase, to launching, and operating a business
This blog, gives you an idea of the range of successful Indigenous Women entrepreneurs running businesses in the lands we call Canada. Each of the women mentioned here has found a different path to success.

Just as Canada has dozens of universities, there are many programs in place to help Indigenous women learn how to hone their entrepreneurial skills. There’s still room for more, as there is more than one way to learn. Sometimes we need to experience the same teachings from different sources before they resonate with us!

If you liked this blog, you may be interested in reading:
Finding Mentors
Choose Joy, Until You Choose to Move on
Learning Opportunities are all Around us!
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    Blogs are on pause for a few weeks. Read the latest blog posted "Retelling my Story" to learn why.

    Hi, I'm Chantal Fraser, in March 2020, after a week of social distancing, and spending a lot more time on social media than I normally do, I realized a lot of my comments focus on the future.  I started to draft a LinkedIn post, then realized I could start a blog about the world I'd like to live in after COVID 19. 
    Now most of my posts are thoughts leadership, inclusion, networking, and the #NewNormal I'd like to help create, one where everyone can thrive.

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