Do you feel frustrated with your career, like things aren’t going the way you expected or hoped?

Do you feel like you’re stuck and running out of options?

You’re not alone!

Many people go through this phase as they try to figure out how to get the jobs they really want.
So much so that I offer an 8 week Thought Partner program to help people learn strategies and tactics so they can learn how to design courses of action to achieve their definitions of success. You can learn more about the Navigating your Career Route Map program here.

Sometimes people just need a hint, or a short conversation to give them a boost of confidence to realize that it’s OK to ask for what they want.

I was brought up on the family legend of my mother asking for what she wanted, a posting to Europe, where she met and married my father. My parents repeatedly told us to ask for what we wanted, with the follow up that the worst that could happen would be that the answer is “no.”

On the other hand, the answer could be “Yes!”

Throughout my military career, I asked for what I wanted. This included courses, postings and even volunteer roles. I viewed meetings with the career manager as an opportunity to negotiate. When I was told as a newly commissioned officer, that my next posting would be to a job where the majority of my work would deal with things like requests for access to information, I cheekily asked if I could have a “real job.”

Luckily my career manager had a sense of humour and asked me to define what a “real job” was. I told him that I wanted a job where I had a staff and responsibilities, where I could use all the leadership training, I’d had during my military college experience. I also said I was willing to go anywhere for that kind of job.

That’s how I ended up at 403 Tactical Helicopter Squadron in Gagetown, New Brunswick, where I was responsible for administrative, transportation, vehicle maintenance, supply and financial services support. I led a multi-faceted team, in a very male dominated environment. It was a fabulous opportunity and I thoroughly enjoyed my job.

Now, one of the things I do as a Thought Partner is help others identify the opportunities, they have to ask for what they want.

Last week, I had a lovely phone call with a woman I hadn’t spoken to in a few years. Kris Dawson saw my post about the Navigating Your Career Route Map program and asked if I had time for a call. Between getting ready for the program launching on June 25, and projects I’m working on for clients, my weekdays are pretty much booked solid, so I suggested a weekend phone call. Here’s what Kris wrote about me on LinkedIn:

“Even though part of my background was as a career coach, it's really hard to coach yourself into your next career. So I reached out to Chantal to get some clarity around my approach to a possible job opportunity. (She made herself available right away for me - on a Sunday morning!) She gave me some straight forward simple advice (and confidence) on what to do to ensure my needs were met. And, it worked! I landed exactly what I was after. Thanks Chantal for being my trusted coach and cheerleader all in one!

More on Chantal: I first met Chantal around 7 years ago through an HR Conference, hadn't spoken to her in awhile but always had her in the back of my mind. She carries with her great knowledge and experience and a very positive mindset and is available when you need her most! I have no doubt that she can help others gain a clearer path to their next career move.”

The advice that I gave Kris can be summed up as “ask for what you want, you might just get it!”

There’s more to it than that of course, which is why there’s always work for career coaches, mentors and Thought Partners.

Here’s my small ask, if my content resonates with you, please share it with your friends, family and colleagues, so that they can learn about the services I offer.

Here’s my big ask, consider investing your time, energy and hard-earned money in the Navigating your Career Route Map: Designing Courses of Action to Help You Achieve Your Definition of Success program.

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I’m thrilled to share that the introductory offering of the Navigating your Career Route Map: Designing Courses of Action to Help You Achieve Your Definition of Success program is now available online!

The Navigating your Career Route Map program is all about helping you discover and explore practical strategies and tips that may help you navigate how you can achieve your definition of success.

This program combines facilitated discussion with elements of coaching, mentoring and Mastermind processes. The program is presented in a small group, accessible, online setting, and includes individual Thought Partner sessions with me.

I’ll be sharing my insights into how you can navigate your work life, based on my successful military career, my transition to life as a veteran and entrepreneur, and the successes my coaching clients and mentees have experienced.

You’ll be participating in an interactive online group setting, which immediately expands your Friendly Forces network, and gives you an accountability partner group.

You may be wondering what Thought Partner means. Until I sat down to write this post, I thought it was a term I made up, to describe how I prefer to work with people.
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Then I googled “Thought Partner” and learned that the term has been around since at least June 2012, when Rania Anderson, a wildly successful Speaker, Author, and Executive Business Coach, wrote a guest post for Forbes which reads in part:

“A Thought Partner is someone who:

Challenges your thinking.

Causes you to modify or change your paradigms, assumptions or actions

Has information or a way of thinking that provokes you to innovate or otherwise leads to value creation in your business, career or life.

A Thought Partner is different from a Thought Leader. Thought Leaders are people who are clearly and widely recognized as leading experts and visionaries in their field.

Thought Partners may also be Thought Leaders, though generally, they are not. Thought Partners are usually people who possess information, knowledge, or a way of thinking that challenges and provokes divergent thinking and action for you. Your Thought Partners may arise from within any area of your life; you just have to engage with and listen to them. When you can attune yourselves, there is music to be made.”

These words resonated so powerfully that the first thing I did after reading them was to reach out through LinkedIn to invite Rania to join my network. (We're now connected!!!) Then I went back to writing.

Wondering if the Navigating your Career Route Map program might be for you?

If you:
-  want to make changes in your work life, develop your career, and/or explore other career options; and
-  are willing to do the hard work of figuring out why things aren’t going the way you expected, to face things you might rather ignore, and to communicate with radical candour;
-  then this program might be the one you’ve been searching for!

I look forward to meeting, learning about, and sharing thoughts with the 12 participants in the Navigating your Career Route Map: Designing Courses of Action to Help You Achieve Your Definition of Success program. I hope to connect with you soon!

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Seeking out new learning opportunities is a life long habit.  On Sunday June 6, I officially joined the A.T.H.E.N.A. program run by the Audrée Dufresne and David Morrow from HRD2KILL. This program was specifically created for Canadian women veterans.

During my intake interview, I learned that in addition to participating in a weekly exercise session with the rest of my sister veterans, I’ll also be receiving 3 tailored workout plans each week as “homework” that will help me reach my goal to “be healthier” while respecting the body I have and my current range of motion.

Aubree interviewed me to find out what kinds of exercise I enjoy doing, and what I won’t do: no more jogging or running for me! She also asked me to perform a few stretching exercises so she could assess my current range of motion.

My friends, family and long-time colleagues know that I’m not a natural athlete. I enjoy moving my body. However, like many people I find it much easier to stay on track of my fitness program if I’m exercising as part of a group.

The A.T.H.E.N.A. program is totally virtual, and the other participants are all people I can relate to. We share the common bond of having served in the military. We’re all used to teamwork and for this serial of A.T.H.E.N.A. at least, we’re all of a similar age.

One of the great things about a shared military background, is that there’s a high likelihood that we’ll celebrate each other’s successes, and be understanding when one of us makes a mistake, or misses a session.

In my experience with the military, most people embraced a lessons learned framework. That is, when someone made a mistake, or if a plan didn’t turn out as expected, we reflected on what went wrong, and tried to do things differently moving forward to achieve a more positive result.

This is something I’ve seen time and time again as I connect with military members, veterans and even those who are military affiliated (part of a military or veteran family, or working as a civilian within military units). Generally speaking, we’re quick to admit when we make a mistake, and look for ways to do better moving forward.

We admit we’re human, and we are willing to help others achieve their goals. This means that when we join the civilian workforce or become an entrepreneur, we sometimes experience culture shock, as many organizational cultures are very different from what we’re used to.

I know without even having met the other participants of the A.T.H.E.N.A. program yet, that they will become part of my Friendly Forces network. It’s what most veterans do, we help each other and try to help those still in uniform as mentors or friends.

As I worked on developing the first of my paid online programs, I invested time and effort into imagining my ideal clients. I wondered, who do I know best? Who can I help the most? How can I target a specific group of ideal clients?

At about the same time as I was trying to pin down my ideal clients, I learned that there are 85,000 women veterans in Canada alone. I also learned that many veterans, and most especially women and LGBTQ veterans, find the programs readily available for all veterans to be too male dominated. Many women and LGBTQ veterans would like to participate in programs that speak to their needs, that while similar to those of male veterans, are distinctly different.

There are things that come as a particular culture shock to us that a male veteran is unlikely to experience. For example, when I became a veteran, I was appalled to learn that women and LGBTQ people can generally expect to earn 20-30% less than their cis gender male counterparts, even if they have essentially the same job, education, and experience.

I knew that I wanted to run a multi-week program, where I could help people explore and discover new ways of thinking about their work life to help them achieve their definition of success. Like I did when I became a veteran and started my own business.

Then it hit me, my ideal audience, the people I knew the best were military veterans. As a woman, my insights are likely to help other veterans who are not men. If I assume that only one sixth of women veterans are interested in pursuing a second career or starting their own business (in effect creating their own second career), then the number is just over 14,000.

The maximum course load for the first serial of “Navigating your Career Route Map: Designing Courses of Action to help you Achieve your Definition of Success” is 12. That’s less than 0.1 % of my ideal audience. Now all I have to do is find a way to reach up to 12 participants interested in investing in the program.

My next blog will be about a scholarship contest for one of those 12 spots. The contest will be shared widely on social media, with advance notice going to those who are on my email marketing list.

NOTE: Being part of my “ideal” audience is NOT a prerequisite to participating in the “Navigating your Career Route Map: Designing Courses of Action to help you Achieve your Definition of Success” program. All are welcome, as long as you follow the Rules of Engagement.

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Just as I believe that everyone has gifts to share with the world, things that they excel at doing, and can do better than most people, I know that there are things that I’m not good at doing. I’ve learned that the best way to compensate for that, is to partner with people who have the skill sets I lack.

What do I mean by that? Let me share an example. I do not think in pictures, while I can appreciate a beautiful scene, like the shining green leaves on the trees outside my office window, I have a great deal of difficulty visualizing the same scene.

What does that have to do with rebranding? I’ve known for years that images are really important to many other people. The old saying “a picture is worth a thousand words” exists for a reason.
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One of my first afternoon’s as an entrepreneur was a photo shoot with a semi-professional photographer friend. She did the photo shoot as a favour, so that I could have a decent professional looking headshot and a few other images for my website and business cards. Up until this month, the fabulous image she took of a path in the woods near my home served as the banner image on my website, LinkedIn and Twitter profiles.
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I’ve updated my head shot a couple of times since then. Even though I attended many branding workshops I hadn’t really spent much time thinking about it.

​In 2018, I invested in getting a logo created for Empowered Path Inc., I love my tree themed logo!

In my company logo, the tree represents a good life. The trunk is a blank space which turns into two branches within the leaves. The blank spaces represent that there is more than one path to creating a good life.
 
Circles can mean a lot of things to different people. To me, a circle represents collaboration, respect and influence. When we treat each other with respect and collaborate, we can help each other learn how to thrive. Each person has a circle of Influence. When we collaborate, we increase our circle of Influence, affecting more people.
 
This year, as I prepared to launch online courses, I decided to invest in getting help from professionals whose strengths complement mine. I reached out to my network to reconnect with Jen Detlor Kerr, from DetDesigns, and asked her to create a logo to represent the paid course that I’ll be offering soon.
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I think in words and connections. I provided Jen with a very long description of what the course would involve along with a few pictures of a Bear puzzle as inspiration for what kinds of image I was looking for. I really liked that the outside edges were a blurred version of elements from inside of the bear and that the elements in the bear could represent different ideas and concepts.

I asked Jen to come up with an image that incorporated the main themes of my course, with stand alone elements over a sort of treasure map, showing that there were many different paths to success, which are often unknown and can be discovered and explored. I asked her to find a way to represent treasures (opportunities), obstacles, and inclusiveness all in one image.

Remember, I can appreciate images, without being able to visualize them. Jen created a glorious image, that exceeded my expectations, and looked nothing like anything I could have possibly visualized on my own. She shared drafts with me, which I shared with a close group of Thought Partners for feedback.

At the end of the process, the course logo image is infinitely more effective and powerful than anything I could have come up with on my own. 

What does this image mean to me?

It represents a treasure map for living a good life. Many things are uncertain, there are no charted paths, opportunities are all around us, and there is more than one definition of success.

The jewels represent opportunities, which are sometimes hidden. The blocks represent obstacles. The network image represents an inclusive network of Friendly Forces, people who want to help us achieve our goals, our Thought Partners. The 3 concentric circles represent the circle of influence. The silver trophy and the silver medal with a purple ribbon represent different definitions of success. The compass represents each individual’s capacity to seize control of discovering, exploring and navigating a path to their unique definition of success.

I love this look and feel so much, that I’ve rebranded my entire website to match it. And over the last couple of weeks, as Jen provided slightly simpler less busy versions the images, I quietly and without fanfare updated all of my social media banners.

Rebranding has been an adventure!
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“Recce” is a military term, short for reconnaissance, and basically means exploring the paths you might take without committing too much energy or investing a lot of money and other resources to help you make an educated guess on how you may choose to achieve your goals.

One of my dreams when starting my business was to deliver training to help people reach their goals. I wasn’t quite sure how I was going to do this, so I spent a LOT of time in Recce mode. I grew my network, met and collaborated on a variety of projects, all the while building up my business savvy.

Last year, I decided to expand my business by offering online courses. To set the conditions for success to deliver content to a wider audience, I did an in depth Recce. I reached out to people in my network and asked for advice. I started with learning about how to make my content as accessible as possible, because Inclusion Diversity Equity and Accessibility (IDEA) are all very important to me. And quite frankly much of the online content readily available is NOT that accessible, which creates an opportunity for my business!

In 2020, I hired Two Canes Consulting. After doing a website audit, and making the Empowered Path website more accessible, Sarina Cormier and Natalie Minnema taught me how to create more accessible online content. Then, I asked them to research and complete user testing on potential platforms.

In early 2021, I participated in a WE CAN Project at Queens University six-week eCommerce coaching course delivered by Dionne Baker of Shop Boss Secrets. She helped me realize the most effective path to delivering online content was through a host site, also known as a marketplace.

I realized that to do this right, I needed to invest in getting help with the things that I’m neither good at, nor enjoy doing. I reached out to the Friendly Forces in my network again. “Friendly Forces” is a military term, that basically means, the people who are likely to be on your side, that you can count on to help you out in a tough spot.

Penny Olorenshaw, from Build Marketing helped me create an email marketing plan, made more improvements to my website, and helped build the Empowered Path courses site.

In 2020, I took Smartphone Video Formula courses in person and online with Aaron and Angela Bell. They helped me realize I could record lessons on my phone if I wanted to. I asked Aaron for a referral for video editors. Playing around trying to edit videos on my own was fun, but ultimately not my strength.

I love learning, when I invested in the Pro + Growth Thinkific package, I took the training offered to learn how to set up the paid course I’ll be launching this spring. One of the first pieces of advice they shared is to offer a free mini course to let people know who you are and what your training is like.

My immediate reaction was to feel sick to my stomach, because any time I record video with no live audience I do a terrible job! A few days later I woke up at 430 am and thought to myself, you have everything you need to upload a free mini course! A few minutes later I was at my desk outlining my first course.

For fun I’d set up my smartphone next to my laptop moments before I delivered the “Networking: Identifying and Connecting with Friendly Forces” session on April 20, 2021 to a live audience of over 100 serving military members, their spouses and others who support people transitioning to life beyond the military.

I’ll admit that the top of my head is not always onscreen, and I rarely make eye contact with my phone. In spite of that, when I watched the edited videos, I thought to myself “Yes! That’s the energy I bring when speaking with a live audience, even when I can’t see them.”

I reached out to the Friendly Forces team I’ve been connecting with to help me put together the paid courses and said, let’s do a test run with this free mini-course. I’m grateful to Jackie Bell and Taylor Bell from Gorgeous Edits for the fabulous work they did creating the short videos for my first publicly available online course.

I invite you to do a Recce to learn more about the free “Networking: Identifying and Connecting with Friendly Forces” course by clicking here.

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One of the biggest challenges when considering a career in an industry that is new to you, is finding out what it’s really like to work in that environment. This is just as true for veterans looking for a second career as it is for new grads looking for their first big job.
 
A great way to get a realistic job preview is to conduct what the human resources industry calls an informational interview. What’s an informational interview? In plain language, it’s what’s known as inviting someone for coffee. The thing is that most employers are too busy to go for coffee, and they’d rather not leave work to meet with people who are looking for jobs.
 
How do you get around that obstacle? Contact an employer that you’d like to work with and ask them if you could stop by with a cup of tea or coffee for a 15 to 20 minute conversation to talk to them about what it’s like to work in their industry.
 
There are a few ways you can figure out who would be open to this sort of conversation. You can ask people in your network if they know someone in the industry you’re interested in, or more specifically at the organization you think you might like to work at, and then ask your contact to introduce you, by email, phone, LinkedIn, it doesn’t have to be an in-person introduction.
 
Another way, is to research employers yourself (read Job Search Tips #1 blog) and then reach out with a targeted message, explaining why you’d like to chat, and offer to drop by with a caffeinated beverage of their choice in exchange for 15 to 20 minutes of their time.
 
Many people find the warm introduction more comfortable. The person you want to interview already has a trusting relationship with your mutual connection, and is likely to be open to talking with you.
 
The second type of connection can be just as effective, if you’re clear about why you want to meet. A great way to connect online is through the LinkedIn platform which over 19 million people in Canada use.
 
The rest of this post outlines how the conversation might go, and includes some prompts.
 
When we’re out of lock down the first contact by phone, email, LinkedIn message, would ask when would be a good time for you to drop by their work place with a caffeinated beverage of their choice for a 15 to 20 minute chat.
 
For now, let’s imaging that you reach out with a phone call. Start by asking if it's a good time for a short chat, 15 to 20 minutes. If they say no, ask when would be a good time to call back.
 
If they say yes, thank them and introduce yourself, how you got their number, you're about to become a veteran, a new grad, exploring potential careers, etc.
 
Phrases with the letters ROE before them are Rules of Engagement (ROE) for more you can download my short free e-book “Networking: Identifying and Connecting with Friendly Forces.”
 
ROE - Get to know the person and what they’re interested in - you already know that the person you’re contacting is in the industry that you want to learn more about, you could start by asking how they decided to get into this business, and what they most enjoy about their current role.

ROE - Tell them a little about you - you started this during your opening comments, tell them why you're interested in learning more about their industry, what you already know that makes this industry appealing to you, what skill sets and knowledge you hope would make you a good fit.
 
You could use the following types of phrases:
“I’m getting ready to transition to a new career”
“I’m starting to explore my options …”
 
Be prepared with a list of 4-5 questions written down before you call or meet in person.
 
The person you’re interviewing may answer some of your questions when they tell you why they got into the industry.
 
The last question you ask should be "Do you know someone else I should/can talk to about being in this industry?”
 
ROE - Things to avoid bringing up, unless they ask you about it first
Don't ask for a job!  If they offer, feel free to explore that opportunity.
Don't tell them too much personal information, they don't need to know everything about you. You’re there to learn about their industry, not to share all of your hopes and fears.
 
Don't under any circumstances bring a resume with you.
 
If they OFFER you a job
And you feel comfortable with the idea of working with them (they seem like a good person, their values seem to match yours, they shared good info)
THEN say something like, "I wasn't expecting this, I'd love to explore that further, can we set up a meeting to discuss this?" and "What information would you like from me for that meeting?" 

Not everyone uses resumes to hire!
 
OR you don't feel comfortable at all, and don't like the values they share while answering your questions
THEN say something along the lines of "Thank you, that's a generous offer. I'm still exploring my options, and not quite ready to work for someone outside of the military yet.” Or for new grads “….I’m still considering where I’m going to live.”
And end with “Can I get back to you?”
 
The reason that I recommend NOT bringing a resume with you, is to avoid putting you into job search mode, which sends off unconscious body tells, that the person you’re interviewing may very well perceive as needy and off-putting. You give off a completely different vibe if you’re asking someone about their job, and how they got started in that industry, then if you’re asking questions as part of a job interview.
 
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Honesty is something we owe ourselves and the others in our lives. Honesty requires reflection, and facing uncomfortable truths. To me living honestly means that the person I show the world is the person I am. It’s about being genuine and authentic, being true to myself. 

I genuinely believe that we all have gifts to share, and I want everyone to thrive. That means, as I prepared to become a veteran, I reflected on what I enjoyed doing the most, speaking, training, and writing, and decided to use those three gifts to help people reach their full potential.

Over time, I realized that my special interests in leadership, inclusion, diversity, equity, accessibility and mentoring also lent themselves to coaching. Now I speak, train, write, coach and mentor. The speaking gigs I accept, the words I write and the training, coaching and mentoring I provide all serve the same purpose: to help people learn how to help themselves, their communities and organizations thrive.

In 2019, I attended my first ever retreat, called a Transition Lifeshop, delivered by another veteran Sandra Perron. It was 2 days and 2 nights for military affiliated women, that is women who are veterans, serving in the military or the spouse of someone who was serving in the military or a veteran. At the end of the weekend, as we were sharing what we learned, one of the women turned to me and said something along the lines of:

"When I saw you here the first night, I thought, aha, now I’m going to learn if this person is really who she says she is. I’ve heard you speak several times at the Second Career Assistance Network events and at an International Women’s Day event, and I’ve seen what you post on social media. I couldn’t believe that someone could be that honest about who they were. Well, you got me, everything you’ve said and done this weekend proved that you are who you tell people you are."

Being honest about who you are, especially to yourself, is critically important. Once you’re honest with yourself, about what truly motivates you, what brings you joy, which people uplift you, what activities and learning energize you, then you can start making choices that will help you lead a balanced, happy and successful life.

Each person should create their own definitions for balance, happy and successful. These definitions are most likely going to change over time. For years, I felt I was living a balanced life, working full time, studying part time, raising three young children with the help of my spouse and some amazing childcare providers, and volunteering. I even made time to be physically fit, most of the time!

I loved that life and felt happy. As my children grew, and the positions I was offered became what I’d originally used as my definition for a successful military career, I realized that my definition of balance, happiness and success had changed. As Dr Stephen R. Covey describes it, I realized I was climbing the wrong ladder.

The last position that the military offered me would have meant radical change for my family. As I pondered whether to accept the appointment or not, I realized that I wanted to be more present in my children’s and spouse’s lives, I wanted to volunteer more in my community, I wanted to be the change I wanted to see in the world, to influence people more widely than I could as a senior officer. I also wanted to share my gifts of speaking, training and writing to help create a new more equitable world.
 
Becoming a veteran and launching my own business was a bit like jumping off a cliff and learning how to fly on the way down, as I had no prior business experience. My only paid work up until that time had been a handful of baby-sitting gigs as a teen, a summer job with the Air Cadets before my last year of high school, and my 28 years in the Canadian Armed Forces.
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Now looking back over the past 9 years, I realize that the skills I learned in my military career, the knowledge I gained through education and continue to gain as an entrepreneur, my willingness to continue learning new things, to explore the unknown and embrace new opportunities are what set me up for success as an entrepreneur.

Listening to Jamie Spencer-Blanchet, another military college graduate, in an episode of the Women’s Mentoring Network (WMN) Canada podcast, with Amanda Kalhous, inspired the metaphor that finding your path to success is more like exploring a jungle gym than climbing a ladder.

To stretch this metaphor even further, there is more than one path to success, sometimes you climb a ladder, only to realize that what you want to achieve is on the other side of the structure. This gives you choices, do you cross over, under or around what’s between you and your goal? Do you go down a slide and start again, climbing a new ladder that leads to your goal? Do you jump onto the monkey bars and cross an imaginary ocean full of sharks and monsters, while starting a new business?

When making career choices it’s important to be honest with yourself about what brings you joy, what kind of work environment you really want to be a part of, and which of your gifts you want to share with the world.

We all excel at different things. To me, the definition of a successful career, is finding or creating your own career, where you get to spend most of your time doing the things you love, and are good at, while being paid at least a living wage to do so.

Being honest with yourself about who you are and what is truly important to you can be world changing and terrifying at the same time. Particularly if you live and work in places that have narrow definitions of what is “acceptable” or that don’t care about what you want. It’s OK to keep some of your truth about what your career goals are to yourself until you find people, workplaces and communities that support you.

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Leadership and Inclusion are two of my special interests. I’ve been learning how to lead people for more than 40 years. Yes, I started learning about leadership while I was a young teenager, as an Air Cadet. I continued to learn more during my military career. Now I’m an entrepreneur and I call myself a Thought Partner.

One of the lessons that I’ve learned, and share, about being an effective leader, is that people pay more attention to what you do, than what you say. If a leader invests their time and money into creating an inclusive workplace, then their team will become more inclusive. This can be as simple as showing up for an event to promote equity and STAYING for the entire event. When a leader stays and interacts with people, rather than leaving to do “more important things” after saying a few welcoming remarks, the leader's choice demonstrates that they genuinely believe in creating an inclusive workplace. I will be forever grateful to Becky Groves for teaching me that lesson when I was a Major.

Over time, I’ve learned that Inclusion is much more complex than striving for gender equity and welcoming people from different backgrounds. I’ve learned that to be truly inclusive, I must also recognize that there are many different ways of learning and processing information. Being inclusive is a life long journey, one that I’ll always be able to improve upon.

This June, I’ll be launching an online course using Thinkific and Zoom. I'm trying to make the course as accessible as possible. Over the last few months, I’ve sought feedback from Canadian entrepreneurs including Sarina Cormier and Natalie Minnema from Two Canes Consulting, Brooke Woboditsch from CCS Inc., Leah Riddell from Signable Vi5ion and others.

This post shares what I plan to do with my course. I’m looking for your feedback to help me provide the most inclusive course that I can.

Here’s an outline of the structure for the course, focusing on accessibility features.
8 group sessions, with professional closed captioning, recordings and transcripts provided after
2 individual sessions, with closed captioning, ASL or LSQ interpreter (on request) through Zoom, may be recorded on request
Participants choice for cameras/audio being turned on/off, and may use chat to participate in all Zoom sessions
Handouts in different formats including two versions of slides available the day of group session, pdf and a plain text version including all words on the slides
Homework assignments, in pdf and plain text versions
Options on how homework is completed for example: journal style, vision board, audio or video format

I would love your feedback, so I can make adjustments as I build the course over the next few weeks.

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Many people imagine that the only way to grow your network is to go to events and exchange business cards. While this might have been true in the past, technology now offers dozens of ways to meet and connect with people from literally around the world.

Since I started my business in 2012, I’ve met and worked with many people who I’ve never met in real life (IRL). We “meet” by phone, video and email.

For example, in 2014 as I was researching a project for another client, I came across a company now called Indigenous Link. I’ve been developing and delivering training for Indigenous Link ever since.  Among other things, they’re great marketers, they find me audiences from across Canada. I get to concentrate on doing what I enjoy most, sharing information through online webinars to help people achieve their goals. I’ve only met one of the Indigenous Link team IRL, he joined the team after me!

In the last year, meeting people online has become even more important. I’ve met and connected with people from around the world. Several have become valued professional contacts.

Many people use social media platforms to grow their networks online. The four applications (apps) I’d like to tell you about are the ones I’m most familiar with: LinkedIn, Facebook, Twitter and Instagram.

I use each of these apps for a different reason.

LinkedIn: for professional networking and learning, and for getting the word out about issues I care about, including my business!

Facebook: for friends, the occasional post about my business, and networking with like minded entrepreneurs and other groups in a more informal way.

Instagram: for connecting with people in a very informal way, while still being professional. This platform is new to me, I resisted joining for years, because I’m not a visual thinker. I originally joined to follow entrepreneurs who I wanted to support, then I realized you can microblog on Instagram!

Twitter: for micro learning opportunities, particularly for learning from people whose lived experiences are vastly different than mine.

A great place to get a lead on people you’d like to network with is to attend free online learning sessions. Many people will share their full name, and some even share their social media handles in the chat. If you meet people whose comments resonate with you during these trainings, jot down their names (carefully copying the spelling) and any other identifying comments, like where they live or work. Then look for them on LinkedIn or your preferred social media app.

Caution: Do not use information gained during an online learning session, or found on a social media app for dating. There are dating apps for that! As a middle-aged woman who’s been happily married for more than 20 years, I find it really irritating when people try to connect with me romantically on social media. Seriously, stay in your lane.

Here’s a story about appropriate networking from the shared experience of an online learning session, using social media. I recently moderated a morning of online learning for one of my professional associations, HRPA. During the breakout sessions I met and learned from others who were attending.  As I was writing this post, I remembered that I meant to connect with these people.

I skipped over to LinkedIn, found everyone who'd shared their full name, and sent them personalized connection requests.  The personalized messages reminded them where we met and included something about the experience. Before I finished writing the first had already accepted my request. Within 24 hours of sending the invitations, all had connected.

We all voluntarily decided to invest our time in the webinar, we met for 10-15 minutes through Zoom audio in breakout rooms, and now we’re connected. This is potentially the start of long-standing professional relationships.

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Spring is the season for new beginnings.

New beginnings can range from extreme radical change to tiny adjustments to how you live your life.

Deciding to become more fit, by adding a few extra stretches into your day, is a new beginning worth celebrating. Signing up for an online course, on a topic that interests you, and has absolutely nothing to do with your current role can also be a new beginning. Choosing to do something creative like colouring or doing jigsaw puzzles can be enough of a change to re-energize you. (Thanks to Ashley Lamothe, Creative Kwe for the last two suggestions.)

This spring, consider creating your own new beginning, by doing something you’ve been thinking about, but haven’t gotten around to yet. Trying something new often opens you up to possibilities you weren’t aware of. If you’ve been feeling overwhelmed, try something new and fun, just for you. “A change is as good as a rest” is an expression I remember from my youth. I interpret this to mean, that much as people are creatures of habit, most of us enjoy some change in our lives, as long as we get to pick what that change will be!  Change can be restful.

One of the new things I’ve been trying this spring is microblogging on Instagram. It’s a lot of fun! Unfortunately, microblogging has influenced my writing, to the point where writing longer blogs is somewhat of a challenge. That’s one of the reasons I haven’t been blogging as regularly lately.

Another reason that my blogging has been inconsistent is that I’m collaborating with a bunch of creative and smart experts to bring my very first independent online course to fruition. I’ve set a goal of naming the program by April 20, and launching it before spring 2021 ends.

Coordinating all the moving pieces for a new course takes a fair bit of energy and creative thinking.  Next week I’ll be participating in a demo for the Learning Management System I’m leaning towards using. I have some questions about accessibility…

As someone who believes in Inclusion Diversity Equity and Accessibility (IDEA) I am consciously investing in getting outside help to make my course as accessible as I can. Will it be 100% Platinum standard first time out of the box? Probably not, because I’m human and I’m bound to make mistakes.  And that’s OK, I’ll be able to learn from my mistakes!

What new beginnings are you looking forward to?
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